A Vision Of Resilient: Recover From An Affair
Resilient vision of Monogamy: Monogamous couples who decide to recover from an affair embark on a jointly heroic journey. They will trade pain and complexity for growth and a remarkable slice of wisdom. They give up the mutual accusations. Partners stop taking the other’s affairs as a reflection on their own desirability (because the source of desire is in the playful imagination, which can be ‘safely subversive’ – in the relationship). No longer are there complaints about ‘what you did to me’. They understand the meaning of how and why one (or both) partners ‘outsourced’ (and not honestly) their desire and eroticism. It’s a vision that’s achievable.
Not a long explanation about how to recover from an affair; a vision