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Time, In Life And In Therapy

Back in 1968, I was fortunate enough to go to a dance at a neighboring high school where a newly popular band had been hired to play. The band probably contracted for the date before they released what turned out to be their most famous and successful song. So we

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Treating Depression

As a follow up to the post about creative/productive depression, I think it’s important to also address the question of depression as it might affect couples therapy, not just individual therapy. Depression case example This presents in the form of one “depressed” (“D”) partner who has some combination of lethargy,

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Family-Of-Origin, Nature And Nurture

One of the more enjoyable and productive therapeutic collaborations occurs when we find a useful, accurate developmental context for how your family operates (or operated.) It can be called “family-of-origin” work*, but that has many schools of thought and various theoreticians and practitioners. Even though I’m touching on vast subject

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Was Today’s Appointment Helpful?

Some years back, near the end of most appointments, I began to ask my clients, “Was today’s appointment helpful?” Asking this question was not an original idea of mine. I was at the time reading professional literature about brief or short term therapy, a model in which this question is practically

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Diversity

The current professional education series on cultural diversity in psychotherapy presented by my state professional organization, the Washington State Society for Clinical Social Work, (wsscsw.org) has been thought provoking. This past Autumn, the lead event in the series was a day-long workshop in Seattle led by Columbia University Professor Derald

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